Everyday it seems like I learn something new from our students. In my ten years in youth ministry, my students have taught me all sorts of things - from proper kneeboarding techniques to sportsmanship to what it really means to be flexible on a mission trip. Today one of our students taught me a valuable lesson in integrity.
The middle school day camp, “Reveal,” came to a close today. I have to say that this year’s day camp was one of the most exhausting weeks of my entire life, and one of the most satisfying in my time in ministry. We finished the week with a day full of activity at the church - a lesson on eternity and salvation in the morning, followed by students rotating through three sweet events - the PCC rock climing wall, an inflatable slip ‘n slide, and my personal favorite, the water balloon launching competition. Throughout the entire week, the students were divided up into teams and participated in several different competitions - from creating team banners to a bellyflop contest at the Clement Center, and concluding with two contests in H2O balloon launching (accuracy and distance). Makes you wish you were in middle school, eh? (Feel free to join our awesome staff!!!)
ANYWAY, in the final rotation of the day we had a bit of controversy. Three members from each team fired water balloons at a target in the East parking lot. Every time a student hit the target, he/she received 25 points for his/her team. One of the guys stepped up and took his best shot at the target, which fell to the ground only inches from the target, at which the water in the balloon splashed up against the target and shook it. The student was certain that he had hit the target, as did several members from other teams. It looked to me like he had fallen a bit short, and there was a moment of hesitation. During that moment, a teammate of the guy who shot the balloon stepped forward and said that the balloon in fact did not hit the target, fully knowing that it would cost his team 25 points. I stood for a few seconds in disbelief looking at this young man, inspired by the integrity he displayed during a time when it would have been easy to try and convince me that his teammate hit the target. I looked at our scorekeeper, Sarah Boeder, and asked her to add a single point to the team’s score for integrity. I couldn’t award the team 25 points in fairness to the other teams, but I wanted to send the message that I valued the lesson in character this young man had shown to our students.
Okay, fast forward to 2:30, the end of day camp and our awards ceremony. Each of the eight teams did their very best this week, but only three teams could claim prizes. The champions, the “Bounty Hunters” cleaned everybody’s clocks by 100 points. But it got interesting for 2nd and 3rd place. As I calculated the scores, I was shocked to see that the lesson in integrity paid off way more than I could have imagined; as the difference between 2nd and 3rd place was one point. Before you ask, I did not rig the scoring to teach everybody a lesson in integrity. The scores were tallied only minutes before I addressed our campers. But it sent the message loud and clear that God values integrity. So today I learned another important lesson from our students. I can’t wait for tomorrow’s lesson.